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Friday morning, reflections of a psychoanalyst.

Friday, January 28, 2011

Today the day started with an unstoppable force. A figure, a great man, it reminds me that we need leaders with charisma and ideals. Tierno Galván, you still remember those who have not met you. The minutes will occur between the piano music. I read the newspaper accounts, the tasks left half done in the desktop computer and get email. One soon leaves me concerned for a few hours. I realize that it is neither for the content thereof, or by the sender. It is my place, the vicissitudes of the relationship, the transfer.

I spoke too, was funny, aggressive, loving, educated, ironic. Why it happened so why should now be a pause, another listener. One does not choose how to be in front of each one, just know later, when the other asks why she's always making jokes, why I say these things, why not say anything. Personality? "Madness? No. What has to happen happens, do not shove him to follow or leave. I am willing to be his analyst, if you need to be, a loving mother, the authority of a father who did not, that you expect to arrive or depart and leave you gives you the world.

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I wanted to answer all your questions, she wanted to give him reason, he cured of what has no cure, human, bear the uncertainty, not knowing what will happen until later. Psychoanalyze an adventure for the patient, the psychoanalyst work. An impossible task to be performed on a cross of desires, words.

Psychoanalyst Helen Trujillo

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"They are so treacherous, unfaithful by nature, you dupe and then let you roll the first opportunity. " How many times have we heard this, women resent a bad experience sentimental or simply prejudiced against the opposite sex. We tend to generalize occasionally, but the truth as such, when it comes to human beings do not exist.

why a woman might say she hates men?; Can be so negative a broken heart to put an end to any chance of falling in love?; Are all men equal? , why put the hopes of happiness in them?, "perhaps are we have to provide everything?, what if a relationship goes wrong, they must all go wrong?

When it comes to love between men and women there are many preconceived ideas, each has different expectations do not always agree with reality. Men and women do not have the same needs, nor how to meet it. What could be complementary, we often want to be identical, which is impossible. Most misunderstandings arise because we do not accept the reality of love relationships do not differ much from other human relationships. Must prevail respect, education, the right to privacy, their own tastes. Honestly, we can all recognize that couples most of these things is not respected. There is a tendency to think that intimacy is deceiving the other, that if these individual projects will undermine the relationship, trust is shown to the other such that one is, that is, with all faults. It is the beginning of the end.

As we discuss theoretically a certain contempt for the feminine in men, either through ignorance of our own nature or because they often only have been the subject and not subject of desire in many women also nests hostility toward men we see in many feminist attitudes. Many women attributed to male life easier and more affordable, as if to them the bread and the recognition they fall from the sky without any previous work. We must recognize that if the man has achieved some social standing has had to spend hours of work, money and sacrifice many loving moments and entertainment. However, if we reach a position equivalent to that of many men we must take a path equivalent, not equal, because it repeats what ever made it out.

They have to leave the house mother to win a new and unknown world, also love and prefer to stay in the arms of his lover, they also leave the children with pain to go to work. His world will have to do with their own hands and, often, built in the world of women with whom they share life. Do we recognize the generosity of women that many men have had with us? We talked about the domestic work of the hard work of parenting, but worth is to recognize that they also do something for family. Maybe some other things we have to learn the world of women and men's world, perhaps no better half, but half-lives and what we should hope for is to be two oranges, have full lives.

When we make love the center of all things, we ignore that, as Freud said in his text "Civilization and Its Discontents": so we are never at the mercy of suffering as when we love, we are never so helplessly unhappy as when we lost the beloved object of his love. I would say that is the basis of the resentment of many people when, after a breakup, say not ever again want to try this medicine. If you wait for the love we generate the happiness that we have to get the job, social relations, social projects, not only do we lose love, but, we are deeply disappointed. S i do not project our future, we can not be happy. Happiness is the realization of a work together between two or more people. And if there is no happiness. The resentment and hatred can not be good companions in life, we must recognize his own mistakes committed in the relationship, we have some responsibility in this failure and be open to new people, not because it is necessary to have a partner for life, but if necessary love others to live. Living together is not advice, it is the only way to live .

Helena Trujillo

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I debuted as an actor. I do not think I will give the Goya for now but I'm pretty proud of it. You see, wanted shoot a commercial to promote the newspaper -that comes out when pricked up there, and chose actors among journalists. My sisters, I want the ball or make me say that I chose for looking and let them become illusion. But the truth is I have good contacts in marketing, where did the casting. In the hall gave me a golden advice: do not matter so much that you take good or bad with the director but I always a friend of the door and the kitchen. So I've done everywhere, even in the newspaper. But here I added a third partner needed: marketing people, a department full of wonderful people as well. And he has served: to be released before the camera under the direction of Nacho Vigalondo, the type of pajamas on the spot , who has been nominated for an Oscar with a short .

People who have made successful career in film roles have started with not much more lucid. Notice in the video below the first role-with-phrase Harrison Ford in a movie of 1966 in Spain was called Thief and Lover. My "will be a press conference" has nothing to envy your hammering asking for Mr. Ellis. What we do recognize is that, apart from good actor, he perhaps it was caught by handsome.



I have no great artistic talent, although I do like small make plays. But as writer and director than as actor. In 1981, 30 years ago, I made at school representation on the coup of 23-F. I lost the script, my mother multiplied with that of the cliché, because there were no photocopiers, but I remember it was a single sheet. Don Dionisio On one side, then our teacher, who promise to talk soon, wrote "very acute". And another: "Very blunt." I was Felipe Gonzalez and, modesty aside, the play was a great success: several classes are always represented in applause. Small works also rode with my sisters and everyone who caught clueless to amuse the visitors who came home. The result was that shortly after my parents were hardly any social life. Nor does it matter much, they are people of gentle manners.

Three decades later I returned to enjoy this mini paper. Could say that I am very ashamed, which is true, I have not seen more than once, "I do fatal-that-I do not think that was a trap ... but to you I can not lie. 'm so proud that my mother can see me on TV and show off to my 521 Facebook friends, the day that makes clean-will find out from my three seconds of fame. The only thing I like about this ad that I rode to think that there are plenty of actors and actresses in the strike, seeking life, killing for working in roles as simple as they have given me. I mean it seems to me a scam usurp a job that is not mine, for which I am not ready and that is much harder to do than it seems.

To them I apologize for my intrusion. And viewers who have seen me also I apologize for sneak into her house unannounced. The next time I promise to knock on the door.

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Helena Trujillo, psychoanalyst

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One of my New Year's resolutions was write more on this blog . Like all other purposes, I'm not fulfilling, but today I'll make an exception. I know I promised a post Varanasi on for three months but have to wait. Because I'm going to talk about a site closest to a house that is on the streets of Alcala in Madrid, and a sign that is at the door.

say that you live in the Calle de Alcala is not to say anything because the road-the old road to Alcala de Henares has 800 numbers from the mansion that forms the corner with Gran Via Spain's most expensive city to past low houses linear tinker with the demolition. In one of these vivendas modest, near metro Suanzes, found this sign on the door . It does not look very good, top bar poque always a piece, but says something like: "Here, women no longer live a happy life. Here is a family and having a respect."

I imagine, by the anger that passes the sign that this family will have had to endure more than a night owl drunk banging the door in search of a brothel . Understandably, therefore, the mosqueo. I do not understand, much as commonly used, the expression "women of gay life." Or rather, I understand but let me think.

centuries women have been conditional on the man until the last century there was, in part, and only in some parts of the world, a liberation of women, without a doubt the great sociological phenomenon of the past decades and one of the most important in history because of age brought half of the population. Until then women had a life much more harder than the men. We idealized but no girl current bear more than a week, her grandmother's life , except to talk about a great-granddaughter of the Duchess of Alba.

Then, perhaps with a touch of envy masquerading as morality and blended with pardonable ignorance was understood that someone spoke of these "women of gay life." But today we know that now and yesteryear, few women have generally had a sad life that referred to the cartel. "Women of gay life? I wish they were all in the literal sense. And men of gay life and children of gay life ... I do not know, maybe the sign been there since the nineteenth century.

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A fragment of the Radetzky March to welcome year. For me 2010 has been great but I find many people around me who feel the same. So I wish a 2011 as happy as it was for me the year ending.

Among my New Year's purposes is to take seriously the music and practice a lot more. I'll get it. In 2010 I showed that I have a strong willpower : I stopped biting my nails overnight after thirty years of service. So what the piano is serious. Sorry for the neighbors.